Life's Extremes

Why is life always so extreme?  I wouldn't mind a couple of years of boring and uneventful.  How we respond to extremes may be the only thing that we can control when they stop us in our tracks.  Sometimes it's easy.  Here's an example:

Not satisfied with the plan to wait 3 months to figure out if the lung lesion I wrote about in my last couple of posts is a tumor or an infection, I asked Dr. Rowley if there was something more we could do.  He suggested a follow up chest CT to compare to the PET/CT a month earlier.  (A CT shows much more detail than a PET, which is a broader scan from mid skull to mid thigh.  A PET/CT combines both, with the CT honing in on a specific area.)  I sent the images to Dr. Georgiades at Johns Hopkins, and he called me with unexpected news.  He said that the lesion has gotten smaller, and that he thinks it's an infection because "cancer doesn't shrink by itself."  I told him I was never so happy to have a lung infection!  No tumor, no need for an ablation!  I was so relieved, I walked around dazed for quite a while.  Avoiding a surgical procedure is huge, since every medical intervention seems to have a domino effect on the progress of my recovery.  This news bolsters my theory that maybe the lung metastases have all been killed.  One would think that any lingering cancer seeds would have sprouted at a time when I had absolutely no immune system, right?  Responding to this extreme was easy. 

But I still have a lung infection to deal with.  Once we learned that the lesion is an infection, I began a course of heavy duty antibiotics, which, predictably, is wreaking havoc on my stomach.  I can barely eat anything, and as I write this, I dread my next attempt at a meal.  I'm down to 90 pounds and very tired.  I've realized the difference between energy and stamina.  Energy can be rallied short term.  Stamina is a whole different ballgame.  It's tempting to turn my exciting news into something negative, but I remind myself that these symptoms are a welcome alternative to having a lung tumor.

Here's an example of an extreme that's not so easy to respond to: 

Two weeks ago I received a call from my friend Linda's husband, Joe.  I met Linda during my pre-transplant chemo treatments last September.  She was also fighting relapsed AML and we shared the same basic game plan to beat leukemia for the second time.  We both had unrelated male donors, likely from Europe, and Linda got her bone marrow transplant the day after I got my stem cell transplant.   We became friends and kept up with each other after leaving the hospital.  Joe was calling to tell me that Linda had relapsed again.  I was devastated.  Joe was devastated.  I couldn't even imagine how their 3 sons, young men just figuring out what to do with their lives, were coping.  I tried to call on all the spiritual principles I know to be true, to find a way to process this horrible news, but I came up empty.  The next day I learned that Linda had had a stroke the night before.  This was a major setback because it left her too weak to receive treatment for the leukemia.

AML produces immature white blood cells that grow like crazy, forming a sludge in the bloodstream.  Healthy blood can't get to vital organs because of this sludge and, if I were to guess, this is why she had the stroke.  Normally, someone in this situation would receive more chemotherapy to put them into remission before receiving an infusion of lymphocytes from the donor.  Lymphocytes are among several different types of white blood cells.  They produce "natural killer cells," or NK cells, which kill cancer.  A lymphocyte infusion is the best shot for recovery from relapse within a year of transplant.  It's kind of a long shot, but it's usually the best shot.  Unfortunately for Linda, the stroke kept her from being able to receive chemo, which would have been the necessary first step.

Linda is now in hospice.  I've seen her several times, and Linda herself is showing me a different way to respond to this unthinkable situation.  She is facing her death with such grace, it's hard to stay in a place of fear.  She is surrounded by so many people who love her, all she has to do is put out her hand and there's someone there to take it.  In knowing that, she seems free.  It's the most amazing thing to witness.

After so many terrifying free falls over the past 11 years on this roller coaster called cancer, I really thought I had a handle on death.  Watching myself respond to Linda's tragic relapse, I realize that I'm not as advanced as I thought.  But I'm closer, only because Joe, Marc, Jon, Michael and their wonderful family have allowed me to be a part of their last two weeks.  Pain and grief are in the forecast.   There's no avoiding it.  For me, I hope to temper these feelings by focusing on Linda's incredible will and the love that surrounds her.

The extremes of life are what we remember the most, the times that make us either grow, or break us.  The choice -- which I think is the hardest thing we face -- is up to us.

Kathy
CANcer + HEALth = CAN HEAL

Change of Plans

At the beginning of my last post, I posed the question,

If you have to deal with not so good news, is it better to find out about it and take action when things are  "back to normal" or when things are kind of better but not so great?

The plan for ablating the newly discovered lesion in my right lung on June 15th has been put on hold for three months.  It appears that taking action when I'm stronger and things are, well, closer to "back to normal," is a better way to go.

I took my reports from Johns Hopkins to Dr. Rowley, who reminded me that three things can "light up" on a PET/CT: inflammation, infection and cancer.  Dr. Rowley suspects that the lesion might actually be an infection rather than a tumor, which would be great news!  (I never thought I'd be hoping for a lung infection.)  He also told me that inflammation from a radiofrequency ablation may trigger GVHD.  That would not be good.  Ablating an infection instead of a tumor would also not be good.  He consulted with Dr. Georgiades and they decided that, since ACCB grows so slowly, it's better to ablate when we are able to confirm that the lesion really is a tumor and when I'm not at risk for triggering GVHD.  The plan now is to have a chest CT in two weeks to see, what, if any changes appear.  Because I haven't had any symptoms of infection, I suspect that the new lesion is a tumor, and if it is, I'm off in September for RFA #5 to ablate tumor #8.  In any event, that lesion shouldn't get too comfortable....

Other aspects of my recovery are status quo:  I'm still having trouble eating, my appetite is pitiful, the tremors are coming back as I taper off the steroids for the third time, and I'm still hovering around 93 pounds.  On the upside, I feel like I'm getting stronger, I'm able to do more, and I'm seeing more friends and extended family than I have for the last nine months.  Because my blood counts are so good, it's safe for me to resume some of the things I used to do (like going to church, taking walks, etc.) and this keeps me sane.  I've also been going to support groups, through which I've been able to network with other survivors and learn about projects, research and events relating to blood cancers.

Although my days are busy when I'm feeling well, I'm antsy to get on with it.  Enough with this recovery stuff.  I never imagined that I'd measure my progress by the seasons.  Transplants are hard on people with Type A personalities.  I've never been a very patient patient.  But that's how it is, and I'll get there eventually.  The most important thing is that I'm in remission and I'm getting stronger.  If only someone would tell my tummy!  For now, I have three immediate goals:  recover enough to return to work, get rid of this lung lesion one way or another, and get medical clearance for a glass of pinot noir!  That's not too much to ask, is it?

Cheers!
Kathy

CANcer + HEALth = CAN HEAL

Being One for the Records

If you have to deal with not so good news, is it better to find out about it and take action when things are  "back to normal" or when things are kind of better but not so great? I didn't have much of a choice this week. I received some not so great news on Thursday when I had a PET/CT scan at Johns Hopkins. I learned that I have a new tumor in my right lung. I was surprised and disappointed, but as I've been telling people, one new tumor is better than twelve. I know this sounds strange, but in the grand scheme of things, one metastatic lung tumor, for me, is not really that big of a deal. I know what it is and what to do.

As you may remember (it seems so long ago), 10 tumors were discovered in my lungs in October of 2006. Three were removed surgically, and when the pathology confirmed metastatic disease from Adenoid Cystic Carcinoma of the Breast (ACCB) --  the first cancer diagnoses in 2000 -- the remaining seven were killed with radiofrequency ablation (RFA) at Johns Hopkins in Baltimore by Dr. Georgiades.  (See November 2008 posts.)

When I got my first negative PET/CT report showing "no detectable cancer" in September 2009, you may also remember that I threw myself a Negative PET Scan Party in October to celebrate. Two days after the party I became very ill and drove myself to the ER. The next morning I was told that I had an aggressive form of leukemia (AML) and was given a very grim prognosis. And the games began for cancer #2.  (See 10/22/09 post, Nothing Like a Good Party Before a Storm.)

When Dr. Georgiades showed me an image of the tumor from the scan on Thursday, I asked him why this happened. It was a stupid question. He could have said, "because it's cancer, dummy." But he knew what I meant. If cancer were to show up again, I thought it would be the 2 or 3 little tiny spots that he calls ditzels that we've been watching for the past 3 years and are too small to ablate. Where did this new one come from? He suspects that if I had a cancer seed, which otherwise may have just sat there forever, that seed may have grown into a tumor because I trashed my immune system. It popped up before my new immune system kicked in. It makes sense given the last 1 1/2 years (minus the 5 months I was in remission before the relapse) of being treated with an alarming amount of toxic medicines and chemotherapy, the last of which destroyed my bone marrow permanently.

Here's the positive spin on this new tumor situation: When I asked about the ditzels, Dr. Georgiades told me that they've actually gotten smaller. If I grew a new lung tumor, wouldn't you think that a weak immune system would have allowed the ditzels to grow too? Maybe that means that the ditzels aren't cancer after all. As I've said before, we all have spots on our lungs because our world has become filthy and our lungs are filters, like sponges. A lot of different kinds of junk gets stored up in a sponge over time. Only the spots that light up on a PET scan and grow over time are likely to be cancer.

Plus, I only have one tumor. If I had lots of dormant seeds it stands to reason, like the ditzels, that they would have grown too. Yes, I was pretty bummed out driving home from Baltimore. But mainly, I was upset about having to go through another procedure to deal with cancer, especially now. But knowing what's going on is better than not knowing what's going on. And the tumor isn't going away. Let's just kill the killer and get on with it.

Needing to exert as much control as possible, I called one of Dr. Gerogiades' nurses from the hospital lobby and tentatively scheduled the RFA for June 15th. It's a same day procedure, which I've had four times before, so I don't expect much drama. I'll stay with my cousin, Karen, who graciously puts me up every time I make the trek to Hopkins. A week after the RFA I probably won't have a single physical sign that anything was done -- not even a band-aid at the site. It's a pretty amazing procedure (see 11/2/08 post, Radiofrequency Ablation - RFA).  Anyone new to this blog who is curious about this 10 minute treatment can click here to watch a short video, filmed for the documentary that led me to Dr. Georgiades in the first place.

After all my pre-transplant tests were completed last October, I met with Dr. Rowley, my transplant doctor. He said, "the only thing I'm slightly concerned about is the cancer that was found to have spread to your lungs." "Oh, that" I said, dismissing him with a wave of my hand. "That's completely under control. It grows very slowly, can remain dormant for decades, and everything that's been identified as cancer has been killed. Because ACCB is so rare, you won't find much about it. It only occurs in <.1% of all breast cancer patients and of those it metastasizes in about 6% of the cases. There's only a few of us, maybe a couple of dozen at most since the 1940s." "Yes," he said. "And of those few, how many have had transplants?" "Oh, right. Probably none," I realized, feeling again, like the only one on the planet with my ridiculously rare medical circumstances.  Oh wait.  I probably am the only one on the planet....

Several people have suggested that I write a book.  Who would believe it?  I have a hard time believing it myself.  Being "one for the records" can be a scary thing.  But at a certain point, it also becomes humorous -- one of those "oh, paleez" situations.  I'm determined to win this prolonged battle and use my unique misfortune to contribute somehow to the landscape of knowledge on two very different diseases.  But before I can do that, I need to get off this rickety and dangerous roller coaster once and for all.  On June 15th, I'll be one step closer.

Kathy
CANcer + HEALth = CAN HEAL

Be The Match: The National Marrow Donor Program

While I'm busy beating the AML beast back into remission, a national search is going on to find a donor that will be a match for me. My sister is being tested, but there's only a 1 in 4 chance that she'll be a match. If no one is found in the US, the search will go abroad. The National Marrow Donor Program (NMDP) or Be the Match, is the official registry for both stem cells and bone marrow searches and donations. I've had a crash course in transplants in the past few days, so I'll try to summarize what I've learned.

Several people have asked me how they can be tested so that the results can be directed to my transplant team. The first step is to check out the medical guidelines that list certain requirements for becoming a donor. Once these guidelines are met, there are two ways to be tested: Private Testing and registering with the Be The Match Registry.

Private Testing
Transplant matching is most successful if the donor and the patient is the same race and ethnicity. The NMDP is searching for donors for me that are Swedish, English or a combination of both, like me. If people are not in these categories, it would probably be a waste of time and money (it costs $150) to be tested privately. If people are in these categories, and want to be tested specifically for me, they can contact Lab Corp at 800-533-1037, where a Friends and Family account has been set up in my name. Potential donors would need to give their name, address, phone number, my name, and ask for HLA, A, B and DR screening (these are regions of genetic markers).

Lab Corps would send out a mouth swab kit, a requisition for the testing and federal express supplies to ship it all back. Once the testing is complete, they will fax the results to my transplant Case Manager and mail a copy to the person tested. The results will not tell the potential donor if they are a match or not. Someone from my transplant center will need to review the results and notify anyone who might be found to be a match. The testing takes between 7 - 10 days. When someone tests privately for someone else, they are not registered in the the Be The Match Registry for possible matching to someone else.

Be The Match Registry
According to the FAQs about joining the registry:

When you join the Be The Match Registry, you make a commitment to consider donating to any searching patient who matches you. As a volunteer, you are never under any legal obligation to donate and your decision is always respected. However, because a late decision not to donate can be life-threatening to a patient, please think seriously about your commitment before deciding to join our registry.

You can request a copy of your own testing results after you join the Be The Match Registry. However, if you want to be tested only for a specific patient, you will need to have your testing done privately.

When I called the Registry, I was told that 75% of the time donors are matched with patients who need stem cells (from blood) and 25% of the time donors are matched with patients who need bone marrow. A bone marrow donation requires surgery, so it's important to review the website thoroughly before registering. The testing process is the same as with private testing. Once someone joins online, a test kit is sent, which can be sent back free of charge. The Registry will ask for a donation to cover expenses and administrative costs. When a copy of the results come back to the donor, that person can fax them to the Case Manager on my transplant team and she will review the results to see if they are a match for me. My Case Manager is Christina DaCosta and her contact information is 201-996-5877 tel, 201-996-5691 fax.

According to my doctor, Scott Rowley, who is the Director of the Transplant Program at Hackensack, there are 19 million people who are giving, brave and altruistic enough to register for this international program. I find that incredible and amazing. Yes, once the mouth swab test is submitted, it's pretty unlikely that any one person is going to be a match for someone, but still. It's nice to think about 19 million people volunteering for something that could save lives, especially when the world is so full of bad news.

In the meantime, I'm riding the wave of side effects from the chemo. Just when I start feeling better, I'm due for another purple, yes purple, bag of chemo cocktails. By mid next week I should feel better and hopefully be through with treatment. Then my counts will drop, just like before, and I'll cross my fingers that I won't get any infections.

On the bright side, maybe I'll get to see the leaves turn after all. From my 8th floor room in Hotel Hackensack, my window looks out over trees and the western towns of Bergen County. If there are clouds in the late afternoon, I can even catch a sunset. Things are not so bad.

Kathy

CANcer + HEALth = CAN HEAL